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Good Impression on First Date

Choose a place that will be special for your date. If you do not know what he / she likes, then ask. You want him / her to be happy to go to a place that is special to him / her. (But you should not exaggerate it – that would raise the bar too high.

If it is a date in a festive setting, then have a small welcome gift for him / her. A small box of chocolates or a single rose for example. Of course it would be better if you knew what flowers or sweets your date preferred. But never try a single rose at a casual first date – it might be too exaggerated, as such things express passionate love. Instead, you can try it with a homemade little thing, a small stuffed animal or something else that makes you look extraordinary. Never give anything big at a first date. The best gift you can give is your company.

If you are a man, pay the food; if you are a girl, then offer to pay the food; your offer will be refused, offer to pay only for you. If this is not the case, accept the invitation. He just tries to be nice. If you are gay / lesbian, just ask how he / she likes it and then explain how you want to manage it, and make a compromise. In many homosexual couples, this problem occurs because everyone wants to pay their own bill. It would be best if you were to change or pay for yourself. If you were the one who suggested the date, it is generally assumed that you are offering to pay for you and your date.

Make your date compliments. Compliments are your best friend when it comes to data. But do not exaggerate or be dishonest. Do not try to be kitschy either. Choose one or more of his qualities to make your date honest compliments.

Do something unusual and inexpensive, but you have invested ideas and time. It should not be great. Take a walk through your neighborhood or offer him / her a homemade cocoa, show him / her your favorite constellation or something else interesting, which will remind you of you.

Finish the evening with a kiss if possible. As you bring your date home, conduct the conversation on something romantic, like the moon, the stars, or the like. Pay attention to the looks and body language of your date to find out when the right time has come

Make Dating Experience Wonderful

Online dating is one of the most popular way to meet a partner of your choice. This way is catering the people from all walks of life and interests. It is a process to create sweet experiences for all who are looking for a serious relationship. It is a serious game and one should not take it lightly. It is like all the other games where you are required to plan to win. You have to make a plan and play by the rule to win your dream dating partner. Your dating must have a purpose and should be focused on what you are really looking for. There is no end of dating but the purposeful end of dating is to get married to the dating partner. As it is a serious game, you can lose easily if you would not plan. So, to win yourself a dating partner, you should:

• Take it as a game
• Make your game plan accordingly
• Write and focus on your purpose
• Just learn the rules as early as possible

You have to stay positive if you want to get something out of your dating. Do not keep yourself entangled with the past experiences. Take it as a lesson and move ahead with life. Just keep in mind the old saying, if you keep doing what you have been doing, you are going to keep getting what you have been getting.

You will have to be bit attentive while dating. Have your strategy ready beforehand. If you really want to have success with it, you need to have a plan of action. Determining and pacing yourself properly will give you confident and more empowered.

Talking To Shy Girls

Make Simple Observations

If you know someone to be shy, make sure that you observe them without being noticed. See what they are reading, doing, and where they go. After you notice a few things, ask them about those things. Simply ask what they are reading, or how you like what they are wearing. You’re not going to break through at first, but the fact that you are asking questions and at least talking to them can help. Also, make sure that you are jovial, but not too abrasive. Have a balanced sense about yourself, with a friendly demeanor, and make things quick. Don’t linger if she’s not interested in going further with conversation. Talking to shy girls is not an impossible task, if you make simple observations first.

Smile, Wave, Say Hello

You will need to focus on talking to shy girls over time. You will not be able to just talk to them once and get their numbers, and you will not be able to date them fast. You need to slow way down. You’re going to have to gain their trust. This involves spending time smiling, waving, and saying hi to them. Don’t push them, and just stay friendly. In time, they will trust you as someone that is safe, and will warm up to you. This takes time, and it’s not guaranteed. If you sense that they feel that you’re safe, and you’re getting more conversation with them than others, ask them on a date. Just don’t push any agenda when talking to shy girls.

Wait For Them To Come Around

When all else fails, you’re going to have to wait even longer for them to come around. Talking to shy girls doesn’t guarantee that you are going to get anywhere. However, your goal should be to be friendly and non-threatening. Just be ready to play the proverbial long game with them. Ask them out and if they aren’t interested, they’ll let you know, and you can move along, but remain friendly. That’s the big thing, you have to remain friendly, if your long-term goal is to be met.

Approaching Confident Women

Start Working On Questions

Look up questions and one liners to say to women. Seriously, look them up and pick out 10 that you are going to memorize. This is going to help you greatly. Learn them by speaking into a mirror and practicing with friends. Make sure that you are confident when you say them, and don’t laugh, break down, or try to fix them. Just say them with certainty. If you can do this, you will be head and shoulders above most men. Once you work these out and can say them with ease, it’s time to test your options approaching confident women.

Head To A Bar and Test Your Questions

Go to a local bar and start hitting on women. This is going to be a bit shaky at first, but you are practicing for bigger game as it were. You will need to be confident in approaching women, and talking to them outright. Getting them to talk is key, and if you want more, get them to go out with your home with you. This is up to you. Take notes the next day as to what work, what didn’t work, and what you can do to improve approaching confident women.

Test Your Luck With Confident Women

Once you have a few notes about what works and what doesn’t, it’s time to go for the big leagues. When you see a confident woman, go straight up to her with your best lines, and ask her out. If she scoffs or says no, then simply thank her and don’t think anything of it. Don’t let it shake you. Keep going and take notes. Then try again. Keep going until someone says yes, because it will happen. This will only happen if you keep pushing and improving. If you cannot gain a sense of assurance when you’re approaching any woman, you will not tackle confident ones that’s for certain.

Tease Your Partner

Send naughty texts
Starting from the basic, send her a naughty text that might have a sexy compliment or naughty joke. Texting has been a full-proof way of enhancing the opposite sex’s emotions and that’s exactly what you’ll start doing here. You can even send her your photo kissing her or doing something better than that (if you and your are comfortable with it). Text her a situation where you both are together and let her imagine the rest of herself.

This would give the ticklish feeling in your as well as your partner’s body which can actually do wonders when you’re together.

Speak naughty words in public
When you are on an outing with your common friends, you can talk like normal couples talk. However, look out for a moment when you can go close to her ear and say something that makes her giggle. For example, you can always come close to her and say that “all you want for the moment is to hold you so tight and kiss you so hard”. It is not important that you say this only, you can say anything depending on how comfortable you are with each other.

This kind of teasing is very effective in making her carve for your slight touch or even to take the action to the bedroom.

Let her know from your body language
When you are out on a date with her to either a regular coffee house or her favorite restaurant, make sure you give her signs that you’re falling for her. Use your eyes to roll on her entire body while you sip coffee from your cup. Make sure she understands your sign language because if she won’t, this will all be waste. Compliment her about her good looks and make your eyes do the talking.

This would either make her feel embarrassed (which has less chances) or she’ll love the way you look at her with all the want as well as need in your eyes.

Shower is the best time to start your day
You might find her way too busy with the morning things and be packing lunch boxes or getting ready for the shower. Slide in the bathroom wearing your favorite thongs that let her see you and you see here. You might just make an entry, cuddle with her and come back out, but she ain’t going to get done with you there. You might want to take the action to the bed to give a good start to your morning.

Date Older Women

1. Improve your overall personality

Cougars love their male partners to be young and confident always. Irrespective of how young you are, make sure that you exude a positive energy around her when you both are together. When you go on a date, look into her eyes while holding a conversation. Talk about things that she loves and exhibits confidence while talking about your life and what you do for a living. Be chauvinistic; pull out the chair for her, ask her if she is comfortable with the food, walk her back gently while holding her hand. If you are an insecure individual who doesn’t know what to do in life, forget it! Cougars hate such personalities.

2. Never discuss her age

If you want to date a cougar and establish a good relationship with her, you should never discuss her age during any conversation. You can discuss how beautiful she looks, how clear her skin is, how bright her eyes are and how she makes you complete. These are the stuff that turns on a cougar and she would start looking forward to spending more and more time with you. If you bring the topic of her age (even unknowingly), a cougar will see it as a sign of your insecurity and will not think twice before ditching you.

3. Know to draw the line

While whispering sweet- nothings into each other’s ears are quite romantic to a certain extent, you should know when and where to draw the line while dating a cougar. Never make any sexual advances and never force her into any kind of physical intimacy, as these things reflect very badly on your character. Have long discussions with her, develop your sense of humour, make her laugh as much as you can and proceed towards the first step of intimacy only if she is keen on it.

Meeting Girls In The Summer

Go Where The Cold Is

When the temperature rises, you should look at going where the air is nice and crisp. If a location has air conditioning, chances are women are going to be there to cool down. That’s why you should be ready to venture out into these frigid areas. Whether it be a mall, ice rink, ice cream shop, or just about anywhere that has some cool air can be great. These are going to be places where a lot of people are trying to beat the heat, and you can join them with relative ease. Remember meeting girls in the summer means balancing hot and cold, so be ready for it.

Know Your Day Date Options

Another thing that you should focus on when meeting girls in the summer is where your date options are going to be. This includes ice cream shops, soda shops, and any place that is known for having cold options. You don’t want to take your date to a coffee shop if it’s 100 degrees outside. You’ll instead want to cool things down with some ice cream, and other elements that are going to help you with getting them cooled down, and chilled. Know where to go, and figure out how to get there before you ever bring a date there.

Dress Appropriately

If it’s hot outside and your goal is meeting girls in the summer, you should dress appropriately. If you don’t have any summer clothing, then it is time to visit your local mall or thrift shop. You need shorts, tank tops, and you need to dress like you’re out and about town. Whether you’re going to the local swimming hole, or you’re just cruising along, you should be dressed with the appropriate attire for summer. This is going to show women that you’re forward thinking in terms of fashion, not just a random idiot trying to pick them up.

The Meaning of Love

The famous anthropologist Helen Fisher explains this neurological condition in three steps.

Desire: This is the first step according to Helen when male and female tend to get more attracted and lustful towards each other due to the presence of sex hormones testosterone and oestrogen.

Attractions are the second step which is an amazing neurological condition. In this step, a person starts to feel more than lust and sexual desire. According to the scientists, three main neurotransmitters related to it are adrenaline, dopamine and serotonin.

On the journey of love, the stress level of a person can increase a lot due to which the amount of adrenaline and cortisol increases in the blood. In this condition a person experiences strange reasons for anxiety and his mind begins to develop unconditional love towards someone special. Often in these cases, the problems faced are an increase in heart beats and drying out of the mouth.

Helen tells about the dopamine, people who love someone have difficulties with sleeping at night, loss of appetite, lack of interest in doing any work and a feeling of happiness when repetitively thinking about small things connected to the person they love.

According to research conducted by Helen, where she studied the brains of a few couples. She found the amount of dopamine level in their blood to be substantial. This chemical aggravates for the fulfilment of desires and its effect on the brain is similar to the effect of cocaine.

Serotonin too is an important chemical for producing love, due to this chemical a loved one becomes an integral part of a person’s thought process. It also connects two people together by their likes and dislikes.

Affection is the third and the last step of love and provides the strength for a relationship to continue it for a long-term. A journey of life with every moment they would like to spend with each-each other and won’t give away their trust till the end of it. Scientists believe two hormones are responsible for this behaviour: oxytocin and vasopressin.

Oxytocin plays a vital role in the cases of Love and relationships and deepens the feels of love and care towards partners and by this hormone, two people start to feel the closest to each other. This hormone is also responsible for the development of the relation between a mother and a child.

Tricks Using Dating Sites

Conversation

The initial conversations should relate to regular things, such as what you get up to in your day-to-day life. Try to find things that interest both parties and expand your conversations from there. The ability to stay flexible in your topics will help to increase the likelihood of finding a successful match. Also, it is important to get involved in conversations when they start and not to be overly shy. Additionally, there are many different ways to get involved with a website and its users, such as sharing likes and dislikes.

Profile

Every user needs to complete their profile thoroughly. This will help to find other members that have a particular interest in your lifestyle. A poorly completely profile often comes across as not serious or fake and unlikely to attract the desired attention.

Website

Make sure to invest a little time to shortlist the most promising dating websites that match your particular interests. There are dating sites to match literally every interest, so you shouldn’t have too much difficulty finding something that suits your needs. Also, there are plenty of review and comparison sites that can help to identify the best options.

Activity

There is a high chance that you will need to send plenty of messages before you start to get worthwhile replies that may be worth taking further. Plus, it is important to be patient and avoid sending multiple messages to other members that interest you.

Avoid the Friend Zone

1 – They never tell the girls their true intentions!

This is the most common reason why guys eventually get friend zoned.

They like the girl; they want to go on a date with her, have fun, sleep with her, and eventually start a relationship. But they’re so afraid of rejection that they always skirt around the issue, never clearly stating what they want and letting the girl know that they actually like her romantically!

You must understand that rejection is a part of life and that no matter what you do – not everyone’s going to like you.

That’s why it’s always best to let the girl know that you’re interested in her romantically, and that you’d like to go on a date with her.

If she says yes – great! If she says no – at least you know where you stand with her, and you can move on, saving yourself a lot of time!

2 – They treat her like a princess!

If you never disagree with the girl, never express your own opinion, always feign interest in the topics that she brings up, even if they don’t interest you – the girl will notice this and won’t respect you.

If you’re constantly afraid of offending the girl or making her angry, always “walking on eggshells” so to speak – she’ll see that you are a spineless guy and lose all attraction towards you.

That’s exactly why “Bad Boys” get to have all the fun, while “Nice Guys” are left behind in the dust.

Bad Boys don’t fear rejection, aren’t afraid of offending people, of living life, of judgment from others. They don’t give a rat’s behind about what anyone thinks of them and they don’t filter their thoughts when they speak – they tell it like it is.

That is incredibly attractive to the vast majority of women, and exactly the reason why most girls fall for these so-called “rebels”.

3 – They constantly doubt themselves!

Self-doubt is one of the most unattractive qualities that a man can possess.

If you can’t make decisions, question your every move, hesitate when talking to the girl, touching her, leading her, and other similar things – you’re not going to get anywhere!

Women don’t like guys who are wracked with insecurities and self-esteem issues. It’s best that you learn how to get those things handled!

4 – They bore women half to death!

This is another huge mistake that most men make.

When talking to girls, they start asking all the boring, and uninspired questions like “Where are you from?”, “What do you do?”, “Where did you study?”, and so on and so forth.

Every girl has heard these questions a hundred times! You’re there to flirt, have a fun, interesting, and exciting conversation with her – and not to conduct an interview!

Refrain from asking the things that a thousand other guys have asked her – and learn some much-needed social skills that spice up a conversation. Skills like storytelling, joke telling, teasing, flirting, spiking emotions, etc.

Give her a reason to want to go on a date with you! Don’t bore her to death and show that you’re both going to have a fun time if she accepts your invitation!